When Paul opens the book of Romans, he wastes no time diagnosing the root of the world’s problems. He describes how humanity spirals out of control when it turns away from God. “Although they knew God, they neither glorified him as God nor gave thanks to him, but their thinking became futile and their foolish hearts were darkened” (Romans 1:21). Notice how Paul connects the unraveling of humanity to a refusal to give thanks. Ingratitude, like pulling the loose thread on a sweater, begins a process that ends in complete moral disarray.
Ingratitude feeds pride. It tells us we earned what we have, that we don’t need anyone’s help—not even God’s. But gratitude? Gratitude is the opposite. It takes the focus off ourselves and puts it back on God. It reminds us that everything we have—our breath, our relationships, our salvation—is a gift from Him. When we choose gratitude, we protect our hearts from the downward pull of self-centeredness and chaos.
Paul’s words in Romans aren’t just ancient history or cultural critique. They’re a wake-up call for us today. If ignoring God leads to darkness, thanking Him leads to light. If pride and ingratitude are the first steps toward destruction, then gratitude is the first step back to joy, humility, and peace.
How can we develop this habit of thankfulness? Let me share three practical steps you can start today:
1. Start Each Day with Thanks: Before you grab your phone or start your to-do list, take a moment to thank God. Thank Him for waking you up, for His mercies that are new every morning, for the little things we often take for granted—a warm bed, a kind spouse, a cup of coffee. Starting your day with gratitude sets your focus on God and helps you approach the rest of the day with the right perspective.
2. Keep Track of Your Blessings: At the end of each day, write down three things you’re thankful for. They can be big or small—a beautiful sunset, a good conversation, an answered prayer. Over time, this habit will train your mind to see God’s blessings everywhere. It will keep you from focusing on what’s wrong and instead highlight all that is good.
3. Express Gratitude to Others: Gratitude grows when it’s shared. Tell someone how much you appreciate them. Write a thank-you note. Speak words of gratitude to God in your prayers or even out loud during worship. The more you express thanks, the more natural it becomes to live with a grateful heart.
Gratitude isn’t just a nice thing to celebrate once a year. It’s a spiritual discipline. When we give thanks, we acknowledge God’s rightful place in our lives. Give thanks to God—it’s the starting point for a life of order, peace, and joy.
Maranatha, Jordy
